Build a Thriving Practice and a Stronger Marriage
Veterinary MBA Live Couple’s Retreat
A three-day working retreat for veterinary practice owners and the spouse that is working with them who want shared vision, financial clarity, and the tools to make sure building something together brings you closer, not further apart.
Tax Strategy & Estate Planning | Role Clarity & Decision Frameworks | Practice Management
April 11–14, 2027 · Rancho de los Caballeros, Wickenburg, AZ
YOUR HOSTS
Christine & Neil Staten
We've been building Adobe Veterinary Center together for over twenty years. From a solo ambulatory mixed animal practice to a two-location, 11-doctor, 53-team-member practice in Tucson, Arizona, and we still practice in it every single week.
We didn't just build a practice. We built a life. Using the legitimate benefits of tax law and intentional financial planning, we've created real wealth, genuine flexibility, and a family legacy through our practice.
We didn't figure this out alone. We sought out financial advisors, tax strategists, and estate planners who helped us build a structure that actually protected what we were working so hard to create. We attended marriage retreats and communication workshops that made us better partners at home and at work. We were intentional about getting the right help from the right people at the right time.
This retreat is us handing you what took us years to assemble.
20+ Years Building Together
53 Team Members · 11 Veterinarians · 2 Locations
“Private veterinary practices are one of the greatest gifts a family can give to a community. We employ people. We care for animals. We serve families. And when we run our businesses well, we become people who can give generously to the causes and communities we love. That is worth protecting. That is worth building intentionally.”
THE REALITY NOBODY TALKS ABOUT
You're both the first ones in and the last ones out, and somewhere in between you're supposed to also be partners, parents, bosses, bookkeepers, and visionaries. The overwhelm is real and it is relentless.
You're afraid to let go. This practice is your baby. You built it together. The idea of trusting someone else with it, delegating the things only the two of you have always done, feels riskier than just doing it yourselves. So, you do it yourselves. Every time.
You're asking the hard questions together in the quiet moments. Was this the right call? Is there actually a light at the end of this tunnel? Are we ever going to turn a real profit? Is this life good for our family or are we missing something we can't get back?
The financial pressure sits differently when there is no outside income as a cushion. The practice either works or it doesn't and you both feel that weight every single day.
And then you drive home together. And you're supposed to just switch it off.
You're Running on Fumes and Running the Practice at the Same Time
Emotionally
The stress doesn't stay at the clinic. It rides home with you, sits at the dinner table with you, and sometimes slides into bed between you. There's guilt about the hours, resentment that can build when roles aren't clear, and a quiet fear that the thing you built together might be costing you the relationship that made it worth building in the first place.
Financially
When both of you are all-in on one practice with no outside income as a cushion, every slow month feels personal. Every large expense feels like a threat. Financial decisions become emotional ones, and emotional decisions become financial ones and suddenly you're not just disagreeing about money, you're disagreeing about everything.
THE COST OF STAYING THE SAME
What Happens When Two Capable People Pull in Slightly Different Directions
Dave Ramsey tells a story about Belgian draft horses. A single horse can pull 8,000 pounds. Put two together and they can pull 24,000 pounds three times as much. But here is the part that matters for you: when those two horses are trained together, working in the same direction with clarity and trust, they can pull 32,000 pounds. Nearly four times what either could do alone.
That is what is at stake when you leave this problem unsolved.
Two capable, hardworking, deeply committed people pulling in slightly different directions, carrying resentment they haven't named, unclear on who owns what decision, can only pull so much. The practice stays stuck. The goals stay out of reach. The freedom and flexibility and financial reward you went into this for keeps feeling like it's just one more year away.
The energy you bring home from the practice shapes everything inside your house. Your kids feel it. Your marriage feels it. The team at the clinic feels it too, because a couple who lead together with clarity and joy create that same culture for everyone around them.
Another year without clarity and alignment doesn't stay neutral. The best time to tend to something you love is before it needs repair. Your marriage will outlast your time at that practice by decades. It deserves the same intentional investment you give your business.
WHAT YOU'LL LEAVE WITH
Real Agreements, Not Just Inspiration
You will leave this retreat with a shared vision, a defined role structure, a communication framework you've actually practiced, and a financial roadmap built specifically for a couple running a private veterinary practice together. Not concepts. Not homework. Real agreements you made together, in the room, with guidance and time to do it right.
Tax Strategy
How to legally keep tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars working for your family instead of disappearing to taxes, taught by an expert who understands the veterinary practice owner specifically.
Estate Planning
Wills, trusts, and the structures that make sure what you're building actually passes to the people you're building it for, not to probate.
Role Clarity &
Decision Making
A working framework for defining who owns what in your practice so that disagreements have a clean resolution and neither of you is guessing.
Communication Within
a Working marriage
Practical tools for giving and receiving feedback with the person you love and lead alongside every day.
The Venn Diagram
of your practice
An honest look at how your roles as owners, employees, and family members overlap, and how every decision you make affects the people in each circle. Understanding this changes how you lead and how you love.
Practice Building &
Legacy Planning
Growth, revenue, and building on what you've already created, so the business continues to rise to meet the life and legacy you're designing together.
LET'S BE CLEAR
This is not marriage counseling. If your relationship needs that level of support, please seek it and do not wait. This retreat is for couples who already have something good and want to keep it that way while they build something great.
This is not a course you'll never finish or a conference where you take notes and nothing changes.
This is not generic business advice from someone who read about veterinary practice ownership in a book. Everything taught here comes from people who have lived it, are living it, and built something real doing it.
What This Is Not
Is This Retreat Right for You?
This is for you if…
✅ You and your spouse are building a practice together and you want to make sure the business makes you stronger, not more stressed.
✅ You have good things going at home and at the clinic and you want to be intentional about keeping it that way as you grow.
✅ You've felt even a little tension around roles, decisions, or the weight of shared financial responsibility and you want to get ahead of it.
✅ You're ready to stop figuring this out as you go and start building with a real framework designed for couples in private veterinary practice.
✅ You want to leave a legacy, not just a practice, and you want to build it together on purpose.
This is not for you if…
❌Your marriage needs significant outside support to function. This retreat will strengthen what is already solid, it is not equipped to rebuild what is broken.
❌ Your practice needs emergency intervention to survive. Come back when you've stabilized and are ready to grow.
❌ You're not willing to have honest conversations with your spouse about roles, money, and the future.
❌ Only one of you wants to be here. This retreat requires both people at the table.
❌ You're looking for someone to tell you what to do. We'll give you the tools and the framework you have to be willing to do the work.
There is no minimum practice size, revenue level, or years in business required. Couples at the planning stage will find as much value as couples who've been building for twenty years. What matters is that you're committed to building something great together.
Your Three Days in the Arizona Desert
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Rancho de los Caballeros sits on 18,000 acres of Sonoran Desert in Wickenburg, Arizona, genuine ranch culture with luxury resort amenities.
The April Arizona Weather — Warm sunny days, cool evenings, and a pool with cabana service. There's a reason we chose April. Sit outside. Breathe. Remember why you started this.
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• Arrive: Sun April 11, 2027
• Depart: Wed April 14, 2027
• Nightly rates (per room, per night, per couple): $650/night
• Inclusions: Your nightly rate includes all meals and all activities, including horseback riding, golf, archery, shooting, and more.
• How to book: after your retreat registration is approved, call Ranchos de los Caballeros Guest Ranch to secure your room under the “Veterinary MBA Live Retreat” room block: 1-800-684-5030
• Want more time for ranch activities? Consider adding a day or two before/after. I highly recommend staying and using Wednesday 4/14 as an Implementation Day. The room rate extends 2 days before and 2 days after.
Due to the all-inclusive nature of the ranch, all registrants must secure a room for at least the three nights (arriving 4/11 and departing 4/14).
This is not all-day meetings at a boring hotel.
This is the backdrop your best conversations deserve.
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Expert Sessions — A tax strategist, an estate planning attorney, with dedicated workshop time for you and your partner to apply what you're learning to your actual practice and life.
Role Clarity Workshop — Christine and Neil walk you through the exact framework they use to define roles, resolve disagreements, and move forward with clarity. You'll leave with a shared understanding, agreed upon before you go home.
The Venn Diagram Session — A guided conversation about how every decision you make as owners affects the people in each circle of your life, as owners, employees, and family.
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Access to Christine & Neil — Not content from a stage. Two people who've been building a practice and a marriage together for 20+ years, in the room with you, sharing what worked, what they'd do differently, and what made all the difference.
The Community — The people across the dinner table from you will become some of your most valuable relationships in business and in life.
TWELVE MONTHS FROM NOW
This Is What Doing the Work Looks Like
Twelve months from now, the couples who came to this retreat and did the work are giddy about what they're building.
Not cautiously optimistic. Not just getting through it. Genuinely, unapologetically excited about their practice, their future, and the person they get to build it with.
They've stopped second-guessing each other and started trusting each other's lanes. They know who owns what. They know how decisions get made. And because of that clarity, the low-grade friction that used to follow them home has mostly gone quiet.
They feel valued. Both of them. Not just as a spouse and not just as a business partner, but as the specific, irreplaceable person who makes this whole thing work.
Their financial goals are no longer a someday conversation. They're a plan with a timeline and a strategy behind it, and they're fighting for it together with the kind of confidence that only comes from being completely aligned.
And they're starting to get their life back. Time together that isn't about the practice. Weekends that actually feel like weekends. Vacations that happen. Kids who get their parents present and not just physically in the room.
They're building something. On purpose. Together. And they know it.
Three Days That Change the Next Twenty Years
YOUR INVESTMENT
The total cost of doing nothing is the one number you'll never see on a spreadsheet.
Retreat Registration:
$3,397 per couple
(includes 2 tickets)
For most attendees, the tax strategy session alone has the potential to return this investment many times over, not just once, but every year going forward. Add estate protection, a locked-in financial plan, role clarity that stops costly misalignment in its tracks, and three days in the Arizona desert that remind you why you started building this together in the first place. This is not a cost. It is one of the most practical investments you will make in your practice, your finances, and your future together.
One Arizona ranch. One week in April.
We've secured a group room rate for you at the resort. Travel and lodging are NOT included in your ticket purchase.
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Common Questions
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For most attendees, the tax strategy session alone has the potential to return that investment many times over, not just in the year they implement it, but every year moving forward. Add estate protection, a locked-in financial plan, and role clarity that stops costly misalignment before it compounds, and the question isn't whether you can afford to come. It's whether you can afford another year without these things in place.
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If you can't leave your practice for three days, that isn't a scheduling problem, it's a systems problem, and it's exactly the kind of thing we talk about at this retreat. The freedom and flexibility you're working toward requires that your practice can function without both of you in it simultaneously. If it can't do that yet, this retreat will help you build toward that. And if it can, then you already have your answer.
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This retreat is not for couples whose marriage is struggling. It's for couples whose marriage is good and who want to keep it that way while they build something great together. The best time to tend to something you love is before it needs repair. The couples who will be in this room aren't broken. They're intentional. There's a difference.
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Show them this page. This isn't a feelings retreat or a sit-in-a-circle-and-share-your-emotions experience. This is a working session with a tax strategist, an estate planning attorney, a communication expert, and a couple who has been building a practice and a marriage together for over twenty years. There are horses, golf, and an Arizona sunset involved. If your spouse is invested in your practice, your financial future, and your marriage — this was designed for both of you.
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There is no minimum practice size, revenue level, or years in business required. Couples still in the planning stages of their first practice will find as much value as couples who've been building together for twenty years. The tools, frameworks, and strategies we cover are relevant at every stage. What matters isn't where you are, it's that you're committed to building something great together.
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This is not a marriage retreat. There will be no trust falls, no vulnerability circles, and no couple’s therapy. This is a business retreat for veterinary practice owners who happen to be married to each other. We'll cover tax strategy, estate planning, practice building, role clarity, and communication within a working partnership. The goal isn't to fix your relationship, it's to give you the tools to make sure building a business together makes your relationship stronger, not harder. Neil and I aren't therapists. We're practice owners who figured some things out the hard way and want to save you some of that trouble.
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Three steps.
Step one: submit your nonrefundable retreat registration payment of $3,397 per couple (Early Bird Price).
Step two: complete the informational survey we send you so we can tailor the retreat to the couples in the room.
Step three: reserve your room directly with Rancho de los Caballeros under the Veterinary MBA room block by calling (928) 684-5484.
Your room must be reserved within 48 hours of registration, or your spot will be released to the next couple in line.
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No. The $650/night rate under the Veterinary MBA block covers double occupancy, full breakfast, lunch, and dinner daily for both guests, one activity per person per day (horseback riding on 20,000 acres, 18-hole golf with cart, trap shooting, or archery), plus complimentary access to tennis courts, pickleball courts, hiking trail transportation, shopping shuttle to downtown Wickenburg, and all on-site ranch activities. Retreatants must book all 3 nights (April 11–14).
Here's What I Know After Twenty Years of
Building a Practice Alongside My Husband
ONE LAST THING
It can be really, really good.
Not just survivable. Not just functional. Actually good. The kind of partnership where you genuinely love showing up to work because the person beside you makes everything better, at the clinic and at home. Where the big decisions have a clean process and the small friction doesn't get to fester. Where you're not just tolerating the complexity of working with your spouse but thriving inside it.
Most couples never get there because nobody ever sat them down and walked them through it. You don't have to figure it out the long way.
You can come to Wickenburg in April with your spouse, your open mind, and your willingness to do the work, and leave with the clarity, the tools, and the community to build something extraordinary together.
Building a business with the person you love is one of the greatest gifts you can give each other and your family.
Come let us show you how good it can actually be.
Interested in Becoming a Sponsor?
We are grateful for the support of our sponsors who help make this retreat possible. If you or your organization would like to partner with us as a sponsor for the 2027 Couples Retreat, we would love to connect with you.
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